Greetings to all the Single Men Entering in Their 30s!

Lavi Chaudhry
3 min readDec 14, 2024

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How are you, men?

Yes! I am asking you How you are doing.

How is it going?

Have you eaten something today?

If not, why?

Why don’t you eat on time every day, why do you wake up too late in the night every day?

You are all the homies.

My homies.

I am like you. There are a lot of men who are similar to us. They are all alone, not dating anyone, no friends, nothing.

You know why we are homies.

Because like you I don’t even get a single call in the weekend.

We sometimes feel alone, watching others having fun, enjoying with families and their own children while we are still unmarried, and not even dating anyone.

It’s Okay to not getting married!

Its okay to not get married until you meet someone who wants to spend their whole life with you.

It’s okay to not earn Million!

Yes, Its fine, everyone can not earn millions or billions, every one can not be a millionaire or billionaire.

Don’t expect too much out of yourself.

Don’t load yourself with overburden.

It’s okay to not having a Goal in life.

Why?

Seriously, do we really need to have a fancy goal in life, that when people got to know about our goal they should say, “Wow! amazing!”

What’s there to have a fancy goal.

Is there something wrong with having a simple goal, “just to be a good man”.

Yes, my simple goal is, I have to be a good man, who has humanity, who think of his responsibility to this earth, to the environment, to my family, to the dog hungry sitting on the road.

It’s completely fine and Okay to think too much

What’s there to think, if you think too much.

Yes, we really think too much, no issue. We sometime think too much and there is nothing wrong in this.

It’s Okay If your Parents are not Happy with you!

Yes, It’s okay!

Each and every second thing is not achievable, if your parents expect too much without investing much in you, then Its okay!

You must do good for them, but if they over expect and not happy just because of that, then its fine.

Hindu Holy Book, Bhagvad Gita Says, “Desire is the root cause of sorrow.”

“If one person were to get all the wealth, luxuries, and sensual objects in the world, that person’s desire would still not be satiated”

You must understand, over-expectations always hurt.

All the single men entering in 30s stay strong, you are warrior, you have to fight and stand alone for yourself.

Remember, warriors never look for support.

If you feel what I say Connect me at: www.instagram.com/lavi_chaudhry

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Lavi Chaudhry
Lavi Chaudhry

Written by Lavi Chaudhry

A lost man searching himself in a universe! I am not a professional writer but I love to document my thoughts! Instagram: lavi_chaudhry 😊

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